The Labor of Love

Pennies From HeavenAs Labor Day approaches, I encountered this poster and it brought to mind one of the favorite maxims of my British-born great-grandmother—Jane Hannah Smith Adams Wheeler—“Pray as if everything depends on God. Work as if everything depends on you.”

Granny lived her pray/work maxim with every fiber of her being. She was a woman of great faith AND she was a hard worker. Granny only made it through the third grade when she had to quit school and go to work to help support her family. After her church organist husband ran off with her best friend, she worked tirelessly to raise their three children on her own. During the Great Depression, she took in her adult daughter and granddaughter (my beloved Nan and cherished Mother), along with her adult son and grandson (both of whom suffered severe alcoholism). At some point, I believe she also took in her other adult daughter and grandson. The legacy of strong faith coupled with hard work is one she, and many of my other ancestors, passed on to my brother and me. You may legitimately level a variety of criticisms at members of the Wells tribe, but we are each people of faith (though the specific forms vary) and none of us are slackers. On the contrary, our difficulties are found in the realms of overworking and overdoing without sufficient respect for the value of rest, reflection and play.

So what about this question of praying as if everything depends on God and working as if everything depends on me? Abundance is available to each of us 24-7. We don’t earn it by good works or even hard work.  The question is whether we choose to ignore or thwart it out of cluelessness or fear, or to access it freely on demand through mindfulness and willingness to align our core energy with the essence of God within us. When we are aligned with unconditional love, respect, curiosity, compassion and gratitude, our every breath fosters generous, effortless, gracious flow filled with faith, hope, prosperity, peace and joy.

Prayer and meditation aren’t about convincing or begging God to get on board with your agenda. They’re about fostering your alignment with the essential Divine agenda already dwelling within you. True prosperity is not about material wealth—material wealth is ephemeral and illusory at best. It comes and goes. True prosperity is about the treasure within—the one which endures and is worth so much more than gold or precious gems.

The ability to embrace Divine grace in each moment and remain calm, lucid and wise—not tossed about by today’s external drama and trauma—is the most valuable and powerful gift God has endowed us with. God says, “Lo, I am with you and within you always. There’s no need to cajole or flatter me, to try to barter or be perfect. Just remember that I am your Source—excellent, limitless and reliable. No external force can block your highest good (only you can do that, and, even then, only temporarily). Universal abundance flows to and through you in each moment—everything’s an opportunity. Simply remember that I am God, you are God’s and love is indeed the greatest power in the Universe. And that Universal love, by its very nature, is always unfolding the highest good for all, in all, through all.”

So where does hard work come into the picture? When work is fueled by love, respect, curiosity, compassion and gratitude, we demonstrate our alignment with the essence of the Divine. That alignment helps us to play our part in revealing and advancing the highest good. Through love-fueled work, we embody the Divine here on earth in human form—the hearts, minds, hands and feet of God. In that sacred space, we allow ourselves access to the full array of God’s wisdom and grace, so that we may paint with the full palette of God. But when we choose to fuel our work with fear, contempt, shame, competition and a sense of limitation and lack, we miss the mark.

Having chosen to forget the nature of the indwelling God, we block ourselves from accessing the Divine wisdom, creativity and power within us. We lock God’s palette in a closet and lose the key. Temporarily. Because all it takes to escape that hamster wheel approach to life is to realize that our thinking has become fearful and small, become curious about the limiting beliefs fueling those illusions and embrace them with compassion for our humanity. Then, having found the key again by remembering that we are spiritual beings choosing to have a human experience (not human beings reaching about in the dark for a fleeting spiritual experience), we remember who we are and Whose we are.

We realign our energy with God’s energy and regain access to faith, hope, prosperity, peace and joy. In that state of grace, we know once again the optimal answers to the ever-present questions of what to do, why, when, how, how much, with and for whom. When we choose to live as expressions of the Divine here on earth, we freely give and receive, so that all may live in harmony, prosperity and love. Once restored to that state of grace, we also remember that not taking care of ourselves demonstrates the greatest disrespect for the Divine gift of human life. If we value the opportunity we’ve been given to be spiritual beings having a human experience, we will do everything in our power to cherish and care for our human “vehicle” mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

The owner’s manual advises that we nurture, encourage and delight ourselves in healthy ways. Because, when we don’t take care of ourselves, eventually we’re no good to ourselves or anyone else. We can give nothing of significant and lasting value from an empty well. Nutrition, exercise, rest, reflection and play are as important to the purpose of our presence here as the activities we more typically label as “work.” They are equally important aspects of the jobs we’ve been sent here to do—manifesting our unique forms of Divinely sourced greatness.  So, Madam Prime Minister, if your use of the term “heaven” is meant to be a synonym for Divine supply, then I respectfully beg to differ with your conclusion. The only pennies with any lasting worth for me are the ones that are sourced in the Divine. My ability to access those pennies and other forms of Divinely sourced abundance, is grounded in my ability to align myself with the core attributes of the Divine. And then to demonstrate my gratitude and respect for my role by discerning, focusing and following through in each moment.

Whatever my circumstances, my job is to remember who I am and Whose I am. I am a unique cocreative expression of the Divine. How could that ever not be enough? Show up, bring your “A” game, trust God with the details! May you grant yourself time for rest, reflection and play on Labor Day and every day. You are a precious natural resource not to be taken for granted. You are the only YOU we’ve got. Behave accordingly! 

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About djwlifecoach

As a retired board-certified coach, author and Reiki master teacher, I continue to share hope, possibilities and empowerment with the world. What's love got to do with minimizing stress and getting unstuck? Everything! My book, "Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life!" (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) shares my story and the stories of 10 of my clients along with my signature Discovery Framework. During my 30 years as an organization transformation consultant, I served as a senior partner in four of the world's largest, most prestigious global professional services firms. In 2005, I took a five-year sabbatical to find healing and peace because non-stop work had taken its toll. My recovery from burnout, including a sustained 80-pound weight loss and freedom from 10 years of debilitating depression, led to finding my purpose sharing hope, possibilities and empowerment with the world. Through healing and self-exploration, I discovered that loving yourself unconditionally is the key to transforming your personal life, your work and the world. With attention and intention, I learned to live in alignment with love through a wealth of energy-shifting tools and techniques that help me reduce stress, anxiety and overwhelm by releasing limiting beliefs, emotions and habits. My books, blog and radio episodes help individuals and organizations harness the transformative energy of love to turn unexplored possibilities into fulfilling realities and step into their greatness. Learn more and access FREE resources at For fun, I love singing, reading, sewing, knitting, golfing and movies. I live in Williamsburg, Virginia with my husband, Wilson, and the coaching cats who manage my life—SiddhaLee and Maisy Jane.
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