Most people have experienced the relaxing effect of music—from the soft strains of a flute playing in the background during a massage, to tuning out the world with your headphones during a grueling commute on public transit.
With hectic schedules, busy families, financial pressures and life’s many complications, stress can permeate every aspect of daily living. Whether you’re experiencing more persistent stress thanks to the holidays or just looking to enjoy the many health benefits of increased relaxation, music can play an important role. It has the power to engage the body, mind and spirit and carry you into a more relaxed state.
Listening to music may evoke memories, images or scenes. This is how music soundtracks help “tell” the story of a movie. We can all intentionally create soundtracks for our lives. Music therapist Jennifer Buchanan guides us in doing just that in her book, Tune In: Use Music Intentionally to Curb Stress, Boost Morale and Restore Health.
Buchanan says that by choosing to listen to music that you associate with calming memories, images or scenes, you can distract yourself from the negative thoughts that are worrying you. Music can also help engage your creative, problem-solving mind so that you can come up with constructive solutions for the worrisome situation.
Purposefully chosen music can also evoke the pleasant physical sensations of actually being in those scenarios. Whether you’re lying down and listening to a slow-paced symphony, or letting loose on the dance floor to a loud, thumping beat, music can give you a physical release from stress.
Attending a concert, creating live music with a group of people or even singing along with the radio can help you to feel connected to a world outside yourself and even to a deeper spiritual presence. Indeed, music has a major role in most of the world’s religions.
Although the use of music as a healing modality dates back to the writings of Aristotle, music therapy was first identified as a profession following World War I when it was used with veterans who had a variety of issues, including post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). In Tune In, Jennifer Buchanan shares the story of her first meeting with a music therapy client suffering from PTSD.
Before they met, her client had closed himself off from the world and spent most of his time in his room. When he first met Jennifer and listened as she sang familiar songs (just one of the many ways that music therapists use music to enhance the health and well-being of their clients), the experience brought a spark of life back into his eyes.
Soon, he was expressing that aliveness in other ways, by expanding his activities and more closely interacting with the people around him.
When it comes to relieving stress, Buchanan says that it’s not the speed of music that is the key—for some people, it is fast music that is relaxing—but finding your own personalized music prescription for stress. She suggests that you first identify which style, speed, instrument or voice seems to soothe you.
Choose a piece of music that has those qualities, and then spend 20 minutes immersing yourself in the relaxing power of music with this exercise.
- Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down near the speakers or wear a comfortable pair of earphones.
- Turn on the music, ensuring that the volume is high enough to capture your attention but not so high it will damage your eardrums.
- Take a few minutes to observe your breathing, shifting your mind from the external to the internal.
- Turn your focus entirely to the music and hold it there. Follow the melody, or pay attention to the pauses in the music. If you find yourself drifting away, gently bring yourself back to the sound.
Repeat often for a long-lasting effect.
Research suggests that your mood will improve and your stress will be greatly reduced by listening to music intentionally.
Author’s content adapted under license, © 2015 Claire Communications
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