Author Archives: djwlifecoach

Unknown's avatar

About djwlifecoach

I am retired from 40+ years of helping individuals and teams build lives and organizations they love. One of the great joys of my retirement from professional practice is having greater bandwidth to donate my professional and creative talents to support and promote animal and social welfare charities. During my 30 years as an organization transformation consultant, I served as a senior partner in four of the world’s largest, most prestigious global professional services firms. In 2005, I took a five-year sabbatical to find healing and peace because non-stop work had taken its toll. My recovery from burnout led to finding my purpose guiding others on their journeys. As a board-certified coach, author, consultant, radio host, Reiki Master and EFT/tapping practitioner, I share hope, possibilities and empowerment with the world. 111419 DJW Sid CH Pet Corner Photo ShootI help clients achieve rapid, extraordinary, sustainable results by connecting who they are with what they do, a connection often lost through stress and the sheer busy-ness of daily life. Courageous self-awareness and unconditional self-love lead to honest choices based on priorities that nurture you and those around you on a journey to wholeness. Decades in coaching, consulting, change management, organization development, human resources and mixed media artistic expression honed my business sense, professionalism, creativity, intuition, leadership and communication skills. The result? Practical tools that help you become more insightful, creative, committed, productive and fulfilled. Even the most dedicated and hard-working individuals can shift from frustration to a sense of futility when their values, passion, work, and lives become disconnected. One of the problems with not taking care of our health is that the effects of ignoring it are often slow to show up. We continue to juggle family responsibilities, work and finances until we lose ourselves, waking up one day 50 pounds heavier in body and soul—no good to ourselves or anyone else. I love working with people who are ready to take life-changing action to make their dreams a reality. At each moment, you have inside you all the wisdom you seek to choose your life and your way of showing up. Limiting thoughts, beliefs and feelings can block you from moving forward. An absence of love and concern for yourself can result in negative head talk that holds you back with discouraging messages about who you are and what you can do. By listening and caring deeply, I guide you in connecting with your own inner wisdom. We identify the way you’d like to live. We determine what’s blocking you and release you from the hold those blocks have over you—unleashing the positive energy that will fuel you forward. Together we develop a plan to move you closer to your heart’s desire. My books, blog, radio show and signature coaching programs help individuals and organizations harness the transformative energy of love to turn unexplored possibilities into fulfilling realities and step into their greatness. What’s love got to do with it? Everything! My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life! (Hay House/ Balboa Press 2013) shares my story and the stories of 10 of my clients along with my signature Discovery Framework. For fun, I love reading, sewing, knitting, yin yoga, afternoon tea, opera and movies. I live in Williamsburg, Virginia with my spouse, Wilson Abney, and the cat who runs our life, Maisy Jane.

Dancing in the Moment

Throughout your life, you will encounter what you perceive as opposition and obstruction. You wanted to leave for your vacation early in the morning before traffic gets heavy, but when you awoke you realized you forgot to pay the bills … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Creativity & Self-Expression, Curiosity, Respect & Compassion, Joy & Vitality | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

The Power of Curiosity and the Joy of Cocreation

If you’re like many, you spend a lot of time making plans and trying to control the world around you. You know how you want your life to look and you apply considerable force trying to make it happen. While … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Creativity & Self-Expression, Curiosity, Respect & Compassion, Joy & Vitality | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Step Boldly in the Direction of Your Dreams

Perfectionism is the single greatest cause of procrastination. Despite the desire for everything to be awesome, what perfectionism most often produces is a stack of discouraging, unfinished, “someday maybe” possibilities. If you keep waiting until everything is perfect, you may never start … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Force, Flow & Baby Steps, Stress, Perfectionism & Burnout | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Burning Your Ships!

Many years ago, seafaring Viking explorers had an inspired practice. When they arrived on the shores of a new land, they would unload all of their supplies and then burn their ships. That way, they had no option other than … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Authenticity & Purpose, Joy & Vitality | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

FREE COACHING OPPORTUNITY MARCH 15-APRIL 4, 2015: How Life Coaching Changes Lives

If you’re ready to take your life to the next level—personally and professionally—then this FREE telesummit is for you. As a member of the Board of Advisors for the International Association of Professional Life Coaches™ (IAPLC), I’m excited to share … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Authenticity & Purpose, Joy & Vitality | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Oprah and Deepak FREE “Manifesting True Success” Online Meditation Program Launching 3/16/15

A well-known Teacher once said, “I have so much to do today—if I hope to accomplish everything on my list, I must meditate twice as long.” Most of us are more likely to say, “I have so much to do today, … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Gratitude, Prosperity & Abundance, Mindfulness, Meditation & Peace | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Give Your Gifts to the Fullest

You were born with a unique combination of gifts that nobody else possesses. When you choose to use those gifts for the betterment of everyone around you, you optimize your own sense of fulfillment and enhance the energetic frequency of … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Authenticity & Purpose | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Lasting Happiness Springs From Within

Have you ever found yourself over indulging or over working in the hopes of making yourself feel better? Did either work for very long? Did each sometimes make things worse? Lasting happiness is a byproduct of a deep sense of … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Falling in Love With Yourself | Tagged , , , | Leave a comment

Living in the Realm of Infinite Possibilities

Have you ever noticed that when you’re worried about something, all you can think about is your problem? Then sometimes, out of the blue, someone comes in with a fresh perspective, and your supposedly UNSOLVABLE problem suddenly has DOZENS of potential … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Creativity & Self-Expression, Curiosity, Respect & Compassion | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

When Life Hands You Lemons

At 18 years old, Bob Cox was a young, promising hockey player. He worked hard, practiced often and had dreams of one day playing hockey professionally. Then one day while riding his motorcycle, he lost control and took a nasty … Continue reading

Posted in All My Blog Posts, Faith, Hope & Spirituality, Intuition & Intention | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment