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About djwlifecoach

I am retired from 40+ years of helping individuals and teams build lives and organizations they love. One of the great joys of my retirement from professional practice is having greater bandwidth to donate my professional and creative talents to support and promote animal and social welfare charities. During my 30 years as an organization transformation consultant, I served as a senior partner in four of the world’s largest, most prestigious global professional services firms. In 2005, I took a five-year sabbatical to find healing and peace because non-stop work had taken its toll. My recovery from burnout led to finding my purpose guiding others on their journeys. As a board-certified coach, author, consultant, radio host, Reiki Master and EFT/tapping practitioner, I share hope, possibilities and empowerment with the world. 111419 DJW Sid CH Pet Corner Photo ShootI help clients achieve rapid, extraordinary, sustainable results by connecting who they are with what they do, a connection often lost through stress and the sheer busy-ness of daily life. Courageous self-awareness and unconditional self-love lead to honest choices based on priorities that nurture you and those around you on a journey to wholeness. Decades in coaching, consulting, change management, organization development, human resources and mixed media artistic expression honed my business sense, professionalism, creativity, intuition, leadership and communication skills. The result? Practical tools that help you become more insightful, creative, committed, productive and fulfilled. Even the most dedicated and hard-working individuals can shift from frustration to a sense of futility when their values, passion, work, and lives become disconnected. One of the problems with not taking care of our health is that the effects of ignoring it are often slow to show up. We continue to juggle family responsibilities, work and finances until we lose ourselves, waking up one day 50 pounds heavier in body and soul—no good to ourselves or anyone else. I love working with people who are ready to take life-changing action to make their dreams a reality. At each moment, you have inside you all the wisdom you seek to choose your life and your way of showing up. Limiting thoughts, beliefs and feelings can block you from moving forward. An absence of love and concern for yourself can result in negative head talk that holds you back with discouraging messages about who you are and what you can do. By listening and caring deeply, I guide you in connecting with your own inner wisdom. We identify the way you’d like to live. We determine what’s blocking you and release you from the hold those blocks have over you—unleashing the positive energy that will fuel you forward. Together we develop a plan to move you closer to your heart’s desire. My books, blog, radio show and signature coaching programs help individuals and organizations harness the transformative energy of love to turn unexplored possibilities into fulfilling realities and step into their greatness. What’s love got to do with it? Everything! My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life! (Hay House/ Balboa Press 2013) shares my story and the stories of 10 of my clients along with my signature Discovery Framework. For fun, I love reading, sewing, knitting, yin yoga, afternoon tea, opera and movies. I live in Williamsburg, Virginia with my spouse, Wilson Abney, and the cat who runs our life, Maisy Jane.

Give the Gift of Possibilities This Holiday Season

Help friends and family harness the transformative power of love to turn unexplored possibilities into fulfilling realities. My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) is offered in softcover, hardcover and eBook formats. All three digital … Continue reading

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Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places: My Journey To Wholeness

An excerpt from Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life! by Deborah Jane Wells (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) When you fall in love with yourself, everything else falls into place, personally and professionally. When love transforms your relationship with yourself, it transforms your … Continue reading

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Give the Gift of Hope This Holiday Season

Whatever our circumstances, Universal love is always unfolding the highest good for all, in all, through all. Give friends and family the precious gift of hope this holiday season. My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) … Continue reading

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November 2013 Radio Show Recap

Having launched a weekly talk radio show in January 2013, it’s a toss up which I love more: writing or radio. The transformative power of touching lives all over the world by broadcasting via the Internet just blows me away! … Continue reading

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Meet Colorado Inspirational Authors at the Parker Library 12/14/2013

More opportunities to share empowerment this holiday season. Visit the Parker Library this Saturday any time from 1:30-4:30pm to meet local inspirational authors at the Denver Speakers Bureau (DSB) Book Extravaganza. I will be there and will be joined by some of my … Continue reading

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Give the Gift of Love This Holiday Season

When you fall in love with yourself, everything really does fall into place, personally and professionally. Give friends and family that precious gift this holiday season. My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) is offered … Continue reading

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Escaping the Prison of Perfectionism

Would you like to learn the secret to thriving rather than just surviving? Life is full of choices. Every one of those choices supports a pattern. Over time, those patterns become habits. When you choose to fuel yourself with fear—by suppressing your … Continue reading

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Give the Gift of Empowerment This Holiday Season

Help friends and family make 2014 their year to shine! My book, Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) is offered in softcover, hardcover and eBook formats. All three digital versions (mobi, epub, and pdf) compatible with Kindle, … Continue reading

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How to Thrive During the Holidays (And Every Day)

An excerpt from Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life! by Deborah Jane Wells (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) When you fuel all aspects of yourself with love, respect, curiosity, compassion, and gratitude, your life becomes a fluid Journey to Wholeness grounded in who … Continue reading

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Changes in Gratitude: Changes in Attitude

An excerpt from Choose Your Energy: Change Your Life! by Deborah Jane Wells (Hay House/Balboa Press 2013) I first became acquainted with the idea of a gratitude practice in 1995 through Sarah Ban Breathnach’s book Simple Abundance. The book’s core concept was … Continue reading

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